Sensual Massage

Sensual massage is the slow way in: twenty minutes of hands on a back, a scent in the room and nothing expected yet. The products here are the ones that make it work, massage oils and candles, warming gels, body powders with a feather, massage tools and the wands that are as good on shoulders as anywhere else. This guide explains what to use for which kind of massage, how to give one that is actually good, and the two rules about oil that matter afterwards.

What to use

Oil for a long, gliding massage of the back, legs and arms: it does not dry, it warms with the hands and it leaves skin soft. A massage candle for the same with a scent in the room and warm oil poured from the tin. A warming gel for hands and breath to heat, best on small areas. A body powder and a feather for a dry, light, teasing massage that leaves no residue. A wand massager for deep pressure on shoulders and thighs, and for what comes after.

Giving a good one

Warm the room and the oil. Start broad and slow, whole hands, long strokes along the muscle, and keep contact with the skin throughout; the moment hands leave the body, the spell breaks a little. Work the back, shoulders and legs before anything else, and spend longer than feels necessary. Pressure should be firm on large muscles and light on the inside of arms and thighs. Ask, once, early, what feels good, then stop asking.

Tools

Massage rollers, stones and gloves spread pressure and give the hands a rest. A wand on low is the best massage tool in the shop for tight shoulders. Feathers and ticklers are for the other end of the scale, the lightest possible touch.

The rules about oil

Oil damages latex, so anything that will involve a condom needs the oil washed off first, or kept away from where the condom goes. Oil coats and degrades silicone toys, so wash hands before reaching for one. Oil marks sheets; put a towel down.

Frequently asked questions