For Couples

Intimacy shared is intimacy deepened. Our couples collection celebrates connection, whether you're looking to explore together for the first time or add new dimensions to a relationship you already cherish. From toys designed for simultaneous pleasure to accessories that enhance communication and play, each piece invites you both into moments of discovery.

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A toy for two is not a replacement for anything. It adds a sensation that hands alone cannot produce, or it hands one of you the controls. The best purchase is the one you both looked at before it went in the basket.

Toys you use during sex

Couples vibrators are worn during penetration: a flexible C shape with one arm inside and one on the clitoris. Fit matters more than power here, so look for a soft, bendable model rather than a rigid one.

Vibrating cock rings do a similar job from the other side and are the cheapest way to try shared vibration. Remote control eggs and wearable vibrators sit inside or against the body while your partner holds the remote, which works as well over dinner as it does in bed.

Playing at a distance

App controlled toys connect over Bluetooth in the same room and over the internet when you are apart. Check two things before you buy: whether the app allows control from another country, and what the brand says about your data. A toy that also works with its own buttons is worth more than one that is useless without a phone.

Strap-ons, kits and furniture

A harness plus a dildo lets either partner take the active role. Buy a harness with a standard O-ring so you can change the size of the dildo later, and check the base of the dildo against the ring.

Starter kits are good value when you do not yet know what you like, as long as you would happily buy two of the items on their own. Position aids and swings take the strain out of positions that are otherwise hard to hold, and matter more as the height difference between you grows.

Talking about it first

Buy together, agree on what you are curious about, and agree just as clearly on what is off the table. A toy that arrives as a surprise more often causes an awkward evening than a good one. Start with something small and shared rather than the most advanced device in the shop.

Hygiene when you share

Anything that moves from one person to the other, or from one part of the body to another, either gets washed in between or gets a fresh condom. Use only non porous materials, silicone, glass, steel or ABS. Water based lubricant is safe with every toy and with condoms.

Frequently asked questions

What is a good first toy for a couple?

A vibrating cock ring or a small bullet vibrator. Both are affordable, easy to use during sex and add stimulation without taking the attention away from each other. If you would like to try something together outside your usual routine, a remote-controlled egg or a couples game is a playful next step.

Do couples vibrators fit everybody?

Not exactly, because anatomy differs. Look for a soft, bendable model that you can reshape, and expect to try two or three positions before it sits right. Models with a flexible arm adapt to more bodies than rigid ones. Plenty of water-based lubricant also helps the toy stay comfortably in place during sex.

Can we use an app-controlled toy at a distance?

Most app toys work over the internet as long as both phones are online, so your partner can control the toy from another city or even another country. A few apps only work over Bluetooth in the same room, so check the product description. Remote-control eggs without an app usually have a range of several metres.

Do we need a condom on a shared toy?

It is the simplest way to share a toy hygienically. Put a fresh condom over it when you switch between partners or between anal and vaginal use, and change it every time. Wash the toy afterwards with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, and let it dry completely before storing it.

How do we start talking about toys with a partner?

Pick a relaxed moment outside the bedroom and keep it light: browse together, or each choose something you are curious about. Agree on what is off limits and that either of you can stop at any time. Starting with something small, such as a massage candle or a bullet, takes the pressure off.

Read our guide: Toys for couples

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