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Suomi Delay & Performance
Sprays, creams and gels that help you last longer or stay harder. Everything here is a topical product you apply yourself, from brands that have been on the European market for years. No pills that promise the impossible, and nothing containing cannabis. The delay sprays work with lidocaine or benzocaine and need five to ten minutes to take effect, then wiping off what is left, because what stays on transfers to a partner and numbs them instead. Less is more here: one or two sprays is a delay, four is an evening you will not feel much of. Test any of it on your forearm first if you have sensitive skin, and check the condom instructions, since oil-based creams and latex do not go together.
INTT Oral Sex Spray Deep Throat for Mouth and Throat 12 ml
INTT Deep Throat Spray Strawberry 12ml
Pjur Med Spray Pro-long 20 ml
Pjur Superhero Glide 30 ml
Pjur Superhero Glide 100 ml
Pjur Superhero Strong 20 ml
Pjur Man Cream Xtend 50 ml
Pjur Man Gel Steel 50 ml
Pjur Delay Serum Superhero 20 ml
Pjur Delay spray Superhero Ultimate 20 ml
Pjur Superhero Performance Delay Spray 20 ml
Nanami Powercore Delay Pro Delay Cream 100 ml
Nanami Powercore Firm Upp Erection Cream 100 ml
Secret Play Love Vibrations Hot and Fresh Retard
Secret Play Retarding Gel for Man 15 ml
Shunga Retardant Male Natural Control Spray 20ml
Sensuva Lic-o-licius Desensitizing Throat Cream
Sensuva Lic-o-licius CDesensitizing Throat Cream Cotton
Sensuva Lic-o-licius Desensitizing Throat Cream Salted
Delay products are sprays, gels and wipes that reduce sensation on the head of the penis so that sex lasts longer. They work by mild numbing, and that is both their point and their limit: less feeling means more time, and too much means no feeling at all. Alongside them sit condoms with a delay coating, and the toys that do the same job without chemicals, cock rings and practice. This guide explains what is in these products, how to use them so they help rather than hinder, and when to skip them.
How they work
Most delay sprays and gels contain a small amount of a local anaesthetic, usually lidocaine or benzocaine, which dulls the nerves in the glans for twenty to forty minutes. Natural or herbal formulas use plant extracts with a milder cooling effect and less numbing. Delay condoms carry a little benzocaine inside the tip so the effect stays on the wearer and does not transfer. Wipes are a single dose of the same ingredients on a cloth.
Using them properly
One or two sprays, or a pea of gel, on the head and frenulum, ten to fifteen minutes before sex, then wiped or washed so that the excess does not transfer to a partner. More is not better; too much makes an erection harder to keep. Start with the smallest dose and add next time if needed. Do not use on broken skin, and wash off after.
What to expect
A delay product buys minutes, not a different body. Men who come quickly because of sensitivity get the most from it; men whose timing is about arousal or nerves get more from a cock ring, a thicker condom, a change of pace and practice. Many find that a few weeks of using one, together with slowing down, teaches a control that lasts after the bottle is empty.
Side effects and who should not use them
Numbness that goes further than intended, a mild burning on application, and transfer to a partner if it is not wiped off. Anyone allergic to local anaesthetics, and anyone with a heart condition, should ask a doctor before using lidocaine or benzocaine products. They are not for use with oral sex unless washed off first, and not for daily use.
The alternatives
A cock ring holds an erection firmer and, for many men, delays orgasm by itself. A thicker condom reduces sensation without chemicals. Pelvic floor exercises and the stop and start technique are free and, over weeks, more effective than any spray. A prostate massager or a masturbator used for practice teaches the point of no return. A delay product is useful on the night; the alternatives are what change things.
Care and storage
Keep sprays upright, out of heat and away from children; they look like any other bottle. Check the expiry date; the active ingredient loses strength over time.
Frequently asked questions
Do delay sprays work?
For most men, yes, for twenty to forty minutes and by reducing sensation. They help with sensitivity; they do not fix timing that comes from arousal or anxiety.
Will my partner feel numb too?
Only if it is not wiped or washed off before contact. Apply ten to fifteen minutes ahead, then wipe or wash; delay condoms keep the effect inside the condom.
Can I use them with condoms?
Sprays and gels, yes, applied and wiped before the condom goes on. Oil based delay gels are not for latex; check the label. Delay condoms have the ingredient built in.
Are they safe?
In the small amounts on the label, for healthy adults without allergy to local anaesthetics, yes. Persistent numbness, rash or burning means stop. Ask a doctor with a heart condition or if you take medication.
What if I do not want to use chemicals?
A cock ring, a thicker condom, herbal delay gels, and practice. The stop and start technique and pelvic floor exercises are the ones that last.