Couples Vibrators

A couples vibrator is a vibrator designed to be used during sex rather than instead of it: it is worn by one partner, stays in place while you make love, and both of you feel the vibration. It suits couples who want extra clitoral or G-spot stimulation during penetration, and with a remote or an app it lets one partner control the other's pleasure.

22 products

We stock 22 couples vibrators from €17.95 to €399. Lelo makes the premium end with the Tiani range, Satisfyer and Pretty Love cover the middle, and IntoYou and Urban Sky the entry level.

The three shapes

Worn inside and outside: a slim U or C shape with one arm inside against the front wall and one on the clitoris, held in place by the bridge between them. Lelo Tiani Twist APP (€115.95), Tiani Harmony (€137.95, Bluetooth app, about two hours of use), TIANI 3 (€149, with a SenseMotion remote that changes the vibration as you tilt it) and the TIANI 24K with a 24-carat gold ring (€399).

Outside only: a contact vibrator that sits between the bodies without going in. The Satisfyer Vibe Threesome 1 and 2 (€32.95 to €34.95) have three flexible silicone arms you bend to fit the clitoris and labia, for people who find an internal arm in the way.

Strapless and remote models: the Pretty Love Valerie (€51.95) is a strapless strap-on whose shorter 9.5 cm end is held inside by the wearer while the 11.5 cm end goes into the partner, with twelve vibration patterns through both. The Pretty Love Nathan (€51.95) has a remote with a screen that shows the pattern and speed, and the Indulgence Plus (€68.95) has thirty functions on a wireless remote and runs on two AAA batteries.

Fit decides everything

For U-shaped models, the bridge has to match the distance between the vaginal opening and the clitoris, and that differs from body to body. A flexible bridge fits more bodies than a rigid one. If a toy shifts or slips out during sex, it is the wrong shape for that body or that position, not a fault of the wearer. Try it alone first, in the positions you actually use.

Remote, app and positions

The wearer cannot reach the buttons during sex, so a remote or app is almost essential and gives the other partner something to do. App control (Lelo Tiani Twist APP, Tiani Harmony) adds range and patterns; a remote is simpler and more reliable in the same room. Face-to-face positions, especially with the wearer on top, keep the external arm pressed in place. From behind, a vibrating cock ring often works better.

Material, water and care

Our couples vibrators are body-safe silicone, most of them waterproof and rechargeable. Use a water-based lubricant: a little on the internal arm makes insertion easier and helps it stay put. Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner after every use, paying attention to the bridge, dry fully and store it apart from other silicone toys.

Looking for Lovense? These toys are also app or remote controlled.

Looking for We-Vibe? These couples vibrators are worn the same way during sex.

Frequently asked questions

What is a couples vibrator?

A vibrator designed to be worn during sex, so both partners feel the vibration. Most have one arm inside and one on the clitoris; some sit only on the outside.

Does the partner with the penis feel it too?

Yes, with the internal-arm models. The arm presses against the penis from the front wall and the vibration travels through it.

What if it slips out during sex?

It is the wrong shape for that body or position. Try a model with a flexible bridge, use positions where the wearer is on top, or choose an external model such as the Satisfyer Threesome.

Remote or app: which is better?

A remote is simpler and reliable within the same room. An app adds more patterns and long-distance control but can occasionally lose its connection.

Which lubricant can I use?

A water-based lubricant. Silicone lubricant can damage the silicone of the toy.

Can I use a couples vibrator on my own?

Yes, and it is the best way to learn where it sits. On its own it works as a small dual stimulator.

Read our guide: Choosing your first vibrator

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