Clitoral Vibrators

Clitoral toys stay on the outside, which makes them the easiest group to buy and the easiest to get wrong. The difference that matters is not the number of settings but the kind of stimulation: vibration, air pulse, or both.

Vibration or air pulse

A classic clitoral vibrator presses against the skin and transmits vibration into the tissue. It is direct, easy to aim and works through underwear as well.

An air pulse toy holds a small opening over the clitoris and sends waves of pressure and suction at it, with almost no contact. Many people find it far more intense, and because there is little friction it is a good option if direct vibration feels too sharp or leaves you numb. Combination models add a vibrating arm for the vaginal opening or the G-spot.

Fit and finding the right spot

With an air pulse toy the size of the opening decides everything. Too large and the pressure escapes, too small and it never sits over the right spot. Hold it lightly against the body without pressing, and move it a few millimetres at a time until the sensation jumps.

A drop of water based lubricant makes a surprising difference, because it seals the opening and softens contact. Angle the toy rather than pushing it harder.

Intensity and patterns

Look for a toy that starts genuinely low. Most people use the first two settings far more than the top one, and a toy whose lowest setting is already strong is uncomfortable through clothing or after climax.

Patterns are a matter of taste. A steady setting that you can hold is more useful than twenty pulsing programmes. A memory function that returns to your last setting is worth more than most extra modes.

Material, water and charging

Choose medical grade silicone with an ABS body, both non porous and free of phthalates. A rechargeable toy holds a steady intensity where batteries fade. Splashproof means rinsing under the tap, fully waterproof means bath and shower.

Cleaning

Wash before and after use with warm water and a mild unscented soap, paying attention to the inside of an air pulse head, and dry with a lint free cloth. Never boil a motorised toy. Store it dry and separate from other silicone.

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