Vibrators

A vibrator is the most versatile toy you can own. The choice is not about buying the strongest motor, but about finding the shape, the intensity and the material that suit the way you like to be touched. This guide walks through the differences so you can order with confidence.

Which type suits you

Clitoral vibrators work on the outside only. They are small, easy to hold and the safest first choice if you have never used a toy before. Air pulse toys belong in the same group but use waves of suction instead of vibration, which many people find more intense and less numbing.

G-spot vibrators have a curved, firm tip that presses against the front wall of the vagina. Rabbit vibrators combine both: an internal shaft plus an arm for the clitoris. Bullets and eggs are the smallest option, good for travel and for adding stimulation during sex with a partner. Wand massagers are the most powerful of all and double as a body massager for the neck and shoulders.

Power, noise and settings

More speeds do not mean better. What matters is the character of the motor. A deep, rumbling motor is felt inside the tissue and stays comfortable for longer sessions. A high, buzzy motor sits on the surface and can dull sensation after a few minutes. Wands and better silicone toys usually rumble low, small bullets usually buzz high.

Noise matters if you share walls. Anything described as whisper quiet stays under roughly 50 decibels, about the level of a quiet fridge. Look for a memory function if you always return to the same setting.

Material and body safety

Only three materials are genuinely body safe: medical grade silicone, ABS plastic and borosilicate glass. All three are non porous, so bacteria cannot settle inside the surface. Everything we sell is free of phthalates.

Never use a silicone lubricant on a silicone toy, because the two react and the surface turns sticky. Use a water based lubricant with silicone, and keep silicone lubricant for glass, steel and condoms.

Charging, water and storage

A rechargeable toy with a magnetic cable lasts for years and holds a steadier intensity than batteries, which lose power as they drain. Check the rating before you take a toy into the shower. Splashproof means you can rinse it under the tap, fully waterproof means it can be submerged.

Store toys apart from each other in a pouch or a box. Two soft silicone toys pressed together for months can leave marks on each other.

Cleaning and care

Wash before and after every use with warm water and a mild unscented soap, or with a dedicated toy cleaner. Dry with a lint free cloth. Never boil a toy that has a motor or a charging port. If you share a toy with a partner, or move it between different parts of the body, put a condom over it and change it in between.

Frequently asked questions