For Men

Toys for men fall into four groups: something to sleeve over, something to squeeze, something to wear and something for the prostate. They solve different problems, so the useful question is not which is best but which one you actually want.

Masturbators and strokers

An open ended sleeve is open at both ends, which makes it easier to clean and lets you vary the pressure with your grip. A closed end sleeve builds suction inside and gives a stronger sensation, but takes longer to dry. Compact strokers are small and firm, discreet enough to keep in a drawer.

Texture matters more than the outside looks. Ribs and chambers create changes in sensation, a smooth canal is gentler and better for stamina work. If you are unsure, choose a soft sleeve with a moderate texture.

Hands free and automatic

Automatic models either stroke with a motor or work with air pressure and suction. They are heavier and need charging, but they leave your hands free and keep a steady rhythm. Look at noise, battery life and whether the sleeve comes out for cleaning, because a fixed sleeve is a problem in the long run.

Cock rings

A ring restricts the outflow of blood, which makes an erection feel firmer and can last longer. Fit is everything: it must be snug but never painful, and you must be able to remove it easily. Silicone rings stretch and are the sensible choice to start with. Metal rings do not stretch and are for people who already know their size.

Take a ring off after twenty to thirty minutes, and always remove it if the skin turns cold, pale or numb. Vibrating rings add a small motor at the front that stimulates a partner during sex.

Sleeves, extenders and pumps

Penis sleeves add girth or length and are also used when maintaining an erection is difficult. A pump draws blood into the tissue with a vacuum. Build up slowly, keep the pressure moderate and stop at any pain. Quick release valves and a pressure gauge are worth paying for.

Material and cleaning

Silicone and ABS are non porous and easy to keep clean. Soft realistic sleeves are usually TPE, which is porous and needs more care: wash it inside out with warm water and a mild soap, dry it completely and dust it with a little renewing powder or cornstarch so it stays soft and does not turn sticky. A damp sleeve left rolled up is how a sleeve gets ruined.

Frequently asked questions