Gay Toys

This category gathers the toys most asked for by gay and bisexual men: prostate massagers, plugs and anal trainers, cock rings, sleeves and strokers, chastity cages, poppers style aromas we do not sell, and the harnesses, jocks and puppy gear that go with them. Nothing here is exclusive to men who sleep with men, and everything here is chosen because it works for a body with a prostate and a penis. This guide is a map of the category and a short answer to the question most people arrive with: where to start.

Anal toys

The prostate is the reason anal play is different for men, and a curved prostate massager, hands free or vibrating, is the toy most worth owning. Plugs are for wearing and for warming up; a graduated set is the way to learn. Anal beads and vibrating probes cover the entrance and the movement. Every one of them needs a flared base and plenty of water based lubricant, and the rectum makes none of its own.

Rings and sleeves

A cock ring holds an erection firmer and longer and, for many men, delays the finish; stretchy silicone rings are the place to start, metal rings when the size is known. Strokers and sleeves are the male toy most men own first; automatic ones do the work. Penis sleeves and extenders add girth or length for a partner.

Chastity and control

Cages hand the key to a partner and turn denial into a game. Fit is everything and the base ring is where fit is decided; the chastity guide covers it.

Gear

Harnesses, jocks, singlets, puppy hoods and tails are clothing more than toys, worn to clubs and at home, and they live in the men's lingerie and fetish categories. A harness in faux leather is the usual first piece.

Lubricant

Anal sex needs more lubricant than anything else and a thicker one: water based anal gels for silicone toys, silicone lubricant for skin and condoms where it lasts longest. Hybrids split the difference. Douching is a choice, not a requirement, and the douche guide explains how to do it without harm.

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