Vibrating Cock Rings

A vibrating cock ring is the couples toy that asks the least of anyone: it goes on in seconds, needs no hands during sex, and puts a motor exactly where the clitoris meets the base of the penis. The ring itself does what any cock ring does, holding the erection firmer for longer; the motor is for the partner, and through the shaft, for the wearer too. This guide covers what separates a ring you keep from one you use once.

Where the motor sits

Most rings carry a bullet on top, so it presses against the clitoris in positions where the bodies meet at the front: missionary, the partner on top, and anything face to face. Some models put a second motor underneath for the perineum or the testicles, and a few place the motor at the side for positions from behind. A ring with the bullet on a short flexible arm reaches further than one where it sits flat on the ring.

Rechargeable or disposable

Disposable rings with a watch battery cost little, last for one or two nights, and are fine for finding out whether the idea works for you. Rechargeable rings cost more, are stronger, quieter, waterproof, and have several levels; they are what you buy once you know it does. A removable bullet is worth having in either case, because it can be used on its own and the ring washes properly without it.

Stretch and fit

The ring is soft silicone and should be snug at the base when erect, never tight enough to pinch. One size fits most; if a page offers two, take the larger for anything worn around penis and testicles together. Put it on half hard, with a drop of water based lubricant, bullet on top and pointing up. Anything hard or metal with a motor is for men who already know their exact size.

Strength, levels and control

Rumbly motors are felt through the shaft as well as against the clitoris; buzzy ones are felt only on the surface and numb faster. Look for at least three steady levels and a button that can be found by touch, or a remote, since the ring is hard to reach once things are under way. App control exists and is more novelty than use here; the ring is on the body that can reach it.

Noise and water

Against two bodies the motor is much quieter than in the hand. Rechargeable rings are usually fully waterproof and go in the shower; disposable ones with a battery cover are splashproof at best.

Time limit and safety

Twenty to thirty minutes, like any cock ring, and off at once if the penis turns cold, purple or numb. Soft silicone rings come off in a second, which is why they are the right kind for a first vibrating ring. Men with clotting problems or on blood thinners should ask a doctor first.

Care

Remove the bullet if it comes out and wash the ring with warm water and soap; wipe a sealed bullet with a damp cloth or rinse it if waterproof. Water based lubricant only. Dry fully and store away from other silicone.

Frequently asked questions