Butt Plugs

Every plug here has a flared base, which is the one rule that actually matters. Jewelled metal for the look and the weight, soft silicone for comfort, vibrating models for when you want more than pressure. Start narrower than you expect: the widest point is what you feel going in, and the neck below it is what holds it comfortably for an hour. Metal is heavy and carries warmth or cold, silicone is lighter and more forgiving. Use a thick lubricant made for anal play rather than the runny bottle you use elsewhere, and reapply instead of pushing.