First-time gifts

A first toy should be small, simple and unintimidating. Bullets and finger vibrators, small clitoral toys, love balls, soft cock rings, bondage starter kits, games and massage oils: easy gifts for someone who has never owned a toy, all under 45 euros.

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For someone who has never used a toy, the gift itself is the big step. Make the rest easy: small, quiet, simple to use and not too expensive.

Start small

A bullet or a finger vibrator is the classic first toy: one button, discreet size, and it works on its own or during sex. Love balls are another gentle start and are good for the pelvic floor too.

For couples who are curious

A massage oil, a card game or a soft bondage kit opens the conversation without pressure. A stretchy vibrating cock ring is the easiest toy to bring into sex you already have.

What to avoid

Big, complicated or extreme toys. Save those for later; the first one should make someone want a second.

What is the best first sex toy for a woman?

A small clitoral vibrator or air-pulse toy. Most women prefer external stimulation, and these are easy to use.

Which lube should we use?

Water-based lube is safe with every toy and every condom. Silicone lube does not go with silicone toys.

How do we clean it?

Warm water and mild soap, or a toy cleaner, before and after use. Check on the product page whether the toy is waterproof.