For Men

Underwear for men that is meant to be looked at is a small category with a lot of variety: sheer briefs, jockstraps, harnesses, thongs, wet look shorts and full bodysuits. Most of it is bought for a partner's eyes, some of it for a night out, and a surprising amount for the wearer's own mirror. What matters is fit around the waist and the pouch, a fabric that suits the occasion, and knowing what a piece is for.

Cuts, from modest to bare

Briefs and trunks in mesh or lace show everything while keeping the familiar shape. A jockstrap covers the front and leaves the back open, and is the piece that flatters the most bodies. Thongs and G strings are the smallest option and need a well made pouch to stay comfortable. Boxers in wet look or satin are the easiest first step for someone shy about the rest.

Harnesses sit across the chest and shoulders in elastic or leather straps and are worn on their own or over other pieces. Bodysuits and singlets cover the torso in mesh or stretch fabric and are the choice for a fuller look.

The pouch decides comfort

A contoured or shaped pouch gives room at the front and keeps everything in place; a flat panel flattens and is only comfortable in a stretch fabric. Some designs have an open pouch, a ring or a removable front, made for access rather than support. If you sit between sizes, take the larger for anything with a rigid waistband and the smaller for stretch mesh.

Fabrics

Stretch mesh is light, sheer and breathable and is the everyday fabric of this category. Lace for men is usually a firmer stretch lace and holds its shape well. Wet look, vinyl and faux leather shine and cling; they do not breathe, so they are for an evening, not a working day. Real leather in harnesses and jocks lasts for years and softens with wear. Satin is smooth and cool and looks best in dark colours.

Sizing

Measure the waist where the waistband will sit, usually just below the navel, and compare with the chart on the product page. Waist is what matters for briefs, jocks and thongs; chest measurement for harnesses and singlets. Some brands run a size smaller than European sizing; when in doubt, take the larger size.

Colours and detail

Black is the safe choice and looks good in every fabric. White mesh shows more than people expect in daylight. Red, dark blue and army green photograph well and stay flattering. Metal rings, zips and studs add to the look and need care in the wash.

Care

Wash by hand or in a mesh bag on a cold, gentle cycle, no softener, and dry flat. Wet look and vinyl are wiped clean with a damp cloth and kept out of the sun. Leather is wiped, dried and occasionally fed with leather balm; never washed.

Frequently asked questions