Gifts for her

Buying a toy for a woman is less risky than it sounds, as long as you choose for her and not for yourself. Most women prefer external stimulation, which is why the bestsellers here are clitoral toys rather than big dildos.

If you are not sure what she likes

An air-pulse toy is the safest choice: it works for most women, it is quiet and it does not look like anything in particular in a drawer. A small wand is the second favourite, and it doubles as a real massager for shoulders and neck.

If she already has a toy

Give the next step up. A rabbit if she has a bullet, an app-controlled toy if she likes to play together, a model from Lelo if she has a budget one. Look one price level higher in the category her toy is in.

Lingerie as a gift

Choose a robe, a babydoll or a set in a size you know for certain. If you are guessing, a kimono or a one-size piece is the kind choice.